I think the men has to agree on the abortion before the women do it. It is the men right to keep the child or no same as it is the women right. The child is not only for the mother only but the father has right on him same as the mohter.
I know back home doctors will not allow the mother to do abortion unless the father with her, or she has a letter from him that he doesn't want the child. Also, if the doctor did that with out the father know, he can go to jail and pay a lot of money to the father.
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Eureka Moment...Week 5
Who Feels More Jealous male or female???
Is jealousy different from person to other or it is a gender thing?????
Last weekend I was in a birthday party with group of my friends. One of my friends "M" saw her boyfriend dancing with other girl. M was so angry and she wanted to fight with him in the party. She knew the girl long time ago, and she knows that her boyfriend and that girl have been friends since very long time even before M dates him. She was so jealous to see her boyfriend dancing with an old friend, she was not able to control her feelings even she knows and she is sure that her boyfriend will never date his old friend, and he was dancing with her for fun only.
After the party my friends and I told Ms' boyfriend what she did when he was dancing with K, he laughed so much and he told her that he never get mad or angry when he sees her dancing with other guy. He told her that he trust her and he is sure she will never look at any other guy as long as she loves him.
After that I asked my self do females feel more jealous than males or it depends on the type of the person and his/her relation with the partner.
Is jealousy different from person to other or it is a gender thing?????
Last weekend I was in a birthday party with group of my friends. One of my friends "M" saw her boyfriend dancing with other girl. M was so angry and she wanted to fight with him in the party. She knew the girl long time ago, and she knows that her boyfriend and that girl have been friends since very long time even before M dates him. She was so jealous to see her boyfriend dancing with an old friend, she was not able to control her feelings even she knows and she is sure that her boyfriend will never date his old friend, and he was dancing with her for fun only.
After the party my friends and I told Ms' boyfriend what she did when he was dancing with K, he laughed so much and he told her that he never get mad or angry when he sees her dancing with other guy. He told her that he trust her and he is sure she will never look at any other guy as long as she loves him.
After that I asked my self do females feel more jealous than males or it depends on the type of the person and his/her relation with the partner.
Friday, June 12, 2009
Response to Nicole's Eureka moment...Week 4
It is so nice of your cousin to leave his job to take care of his new born baby. Most of the time the lady is the one who leaves her work to take care of her baby. I think your cousin should not care about what the family says and try to ignore them as long as he is happy with his decision and he was the one who chose to do it.
My dads' friend after he lost his job, he stays at home with his first granddaughter. He feels so happy that he is taking care of his granddaughter, and whenever someone asks him "where do you work know" he says "Babysitter instead of my wife". The first time I heard him saying that I remembered the movie “daddy day care”.
I felt that my dads’ friend talks about him babysitting his granddaughter so proudly and happy to show the people that it doesn't matter for him whether it is a male or female job as long as he is happy and enjoying what he is doing.
My dads' friend after he lost his job, he stays at home with his first granddaughter. He feels so happy that he is taking care of his granddaughter, and whenever someone asks him "where do you work know" he says "Babysitter instead of my wife". The first time I heard him saying that I remembered the movie “daddy day care”.
I felt that my dads’ friend talks about him babysitting his granddaughter so proudly and happy to show the people that it doesn't matter for him whether it is a male or female job as long as he is happy and enjoying what he is doing.
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Response to Taran's Eureka moment...Week 4
Taran,
I do agree with you that many times we judge people on the way they look or dress with out knowing anything about their lives.
I remember one time I was in the pharmacy and a patient came with many prescriptions. and she didn't want me to do them because i looked different then the others by wearing my traditional scarf. she asked me to get her some one else, and when I told her that I can fill her prescriptions and I am the one who has to type them because that was my job, she looked at me in a scary face and she said "I don't trust you with my prescriptions".
I felt so bad, but I went and I called the pharmacist to help her. After the pharmacist typed her prescription, there was a problem with her insurance so I called them and I fixed everything for her. When she got her medicine and the Pharmacist told her that I've been in the pharmacy for almost 5 years, and I never messed up any prescription and I was the one who fixed her problem with the insurance, she told me that she is very sorry for what she said, and she did that because someone who was doesn't look like American typed her prescription under the wrong name and from that time she only trust "white people".
But after what I did for her, when ever she comes to the pharmacy she asks for me, and she still apologize for what happened before.
I do agree with you that many times we judge people on the way they look or dress with out knowing anything about their lives.
I remember one time I was in the pharmacy and a patient came with many prescriptions. and she didn't want me to do them because i looked different then the others by wearing my traditional scarf. she asked me to get her some one else, and when I told her that I can fill her prescriptions and I am the one who has to type them because that was my job, she looked at me in a scary face and she said "I don't trust you with my prescriptions".
I felt so bad, but I went and I called the pharmacist to help her. After the pharmacist typed her prescription, there was a problem with her insurance so I called them and I fixed everything for her. When she got her medicine and the Pharmacist told her that I've been in the pharmacy for almost 5 years, and I never messed up any prescription and I was the one who fixed her problem with the insurance, she told me that she is very sorry for what she said, and she did that because someone who was doesn't look like American typed her prescription under the wrong name and from that time she only trust "white people".
But after what I did for her, when ever she comes to the pharmacy she asks for me, and she still apologize for what happened before.
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
Week 4.....Eureka Moment
Several weeks ago my co-worker and I were talking about some problems ladies face more than males do. One of the problem we talked about was how many jobs they pay more money to males than to females even when they have same degree and they are in the same field. We compared this between the two pharmacist we have. The female pharmacist been working as pharmacy at least 4 years before the male pharmacist we have. Also, she graduated several years before him, but with that he still get pays more than her.
Last semester in one of my sociology classes we were talking about this topic, and also the prof. showed us a lot of studies that shows in the high fields and in most of the low fields "Doctors, Pharmacy, education, and nursing, etc..." males get payed more than females even in some of them the female been in the field longer and has more experience than the male.
I thought about this a lot and I didn't find any answer specially in US, because when I look at it in my country, they pays the male more because he has more responsibility than the female, he is the one who support the wife with the money even if she works, and he is the one who pays for all the expenses of the house and the kids. But in here both the male and the female supports the family and the house almost at the same level.
So Why would they pay the male more than the female????????????
Last semester in one of my sociology classes we were talking about this topic, and also the prof. showed us a lot of studies that shows in the high fields and in most of the low fields "Doctors, Pharmacy, education, and nursing, etc..." males get payed more than females even in some of them the female been in the field longer and has more experience than the male.
I thought about this a lot and I didn't find any answer specially in US, because when I look at it in my country, they pays the male more because he has more responsibility than the female, he is the one who support the wife with the money even if she works, and he is the one who pays for all the expenses of the house and the kids. But in here both the male and the female supports the family and the house almost at the same level.
So Why would they pay the male more than the female????????????
Thursday, June 4, 2009
Response to Taran's Eureka moment...Week 3
I've never been around any gay or lesbian people, so I don't really know how I will fee if one of my friends turned to be homosexual. As a Muslim girl I am not allow to show any part of my body to anyone or change my cloth in front of anyone other than my husband.
So because of this since I was a young girl I never changed my cloth in front of any one, and when I see someone doing it I feel so shy and I leave the room.
The funny part is when I was in high school and I had to change my cloth to the gym cloth, I always wait until everyone is done and leave the room and then I will change, until one day the teacher told me that I can't be any more late, and when I explained to her so said "you can change in the bathroom". I felt so bad, and I said to myself "she is so mean, and she doesn't respect any other people feelings".
So because of this since I was a young girl I never changed my cloth in front of any one, and when I see someone doing it I feel so shy and I leave the room.
The funny part is when I was in high school and I had to change my cloth to the gym cloth, I always wait until everyone is done and leave the room and then I will change, until one day the teacher told me that I can't be any more late, and when I explained to her so said "you can change in the bathroom". I felt so bad, and I said to myself "she is so mean, and she doesn't respect any other people feelings".
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Response to Joan's Eureka Moment...Week 3
Joan and Taran,
I hope you will not be mad at me after you read my post. I am not trying to offend you but this is what I think. The thing that bothers me a lot is when people judge on others from the way they act, dress, or talk. Also many people do that when they see foreign people acting in a weird way. They never think that the strange way they see might be normal for the people who’s doing it because they are from different countries and they have different culture and different backgrounds. But they have to judge them on the way they see it only. This start to bother me more when I heard a person telling his friend that he thinks my friend and I are lesbian because we were walking and holding hands. At that time believe, it was my first year in US, and I didn’t know what does the word lesbian means. But now every time I remember it I say “I wish I can meet that person to tell his that he shouldn't judge people from the way they are acting”. In my country it is normal for two girls to walk and hold hands, they see it as a sign for a strong friendship. But in here it is something not good and from that time I never hold any of my friends’ hands.
I hope you will not be mad at me after you read my post. I am not trying to offend you but this is what I think. The thing that bothers me a lot is when people judge on others from the way they act, dress, or talk. Also many people do that when they see foreign people acting in a weird way. They never think that the strange way they see might be normal for the people who’s doing it because they are from different countries and they have different culture and different backgrounds. But they have to judge them on the way they see it only. This start to bother me more when I heard a person telling his friend that he thinks my friend and I are lesbian because we were walking and holding hands. At that time believe, it was my first year in US, and I didn’t know what does the word lesbian means. But now every time I remember it I say “I wish I can meet that person to tell his that he shouldn't judge people from the way they are acting”. In my country it is normal for two girls to walk and hold hands, they see it as a sign for a strong friendship. But in here it is something not good and from that time I never hold any of my friends’ hands.
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